This isn’t an “angry” post. I’m just confused. If you’re a white woman, feel free to help me understand it. — Here in Ireland, I’ve had good female friends of ALMOST every race: Black, fellow Latinas, Middle-Eastern, Indian, Asian. All good experiences, with varying levels of proximity, but no complaints and no frustration. There are some I’ve lost touch with over the years, and some I’m still talking to, but there…