Admirable, and achievable for all, but each in their own way, perhaps.

I could never find strength in myself to forgive the exact same way Mandela did - but I have my own way, and it involves giving others all the things I wish I got when I needed them most. Because then, I feel avenged (except, in a harmless way).

Mandela's words about staying in prison ring true, though. A very wonderful soul.