Paola, dear, I'm afraid you misunderstood my article. If you read it in its entirety (not just the "offensive" bits), you'll realise I'm speaking from a personal lived experience. I don't intend on assuming EVERY white woman ever is like that. All I said is the ones I met were like that. And as you can see in some comments above which I replied to, I said "maybe it's bad luck". I'm open to all possibilities.

So, sure, by all means, judge me to your heart's content. But DO NOT (and I'll repeat: DO NOT) put words in my mouth. I don't take kindly to that.